Radical Self-Responsibility — Warning: You may hate me for this

Radical Self-Responsibility — Warning: You may hate me for this

With all the craziness in the world, in the wake of the murder George Floyd, on top of the explosion of a three-month quarantine, riots, protests and vandalism throughout our nation’s cities. When it becomes too much to make sense of in the outside, I turn within for solutions.

From a dream interpretation perspective, I encourage clients to see the people, places, and situations through the lens of a hologram. All this is a fancy way to say:

“Every character in your dream is you.”

“Every character in my dream is me.”

Instead of being stuck in fight, flight or freeze as we stew in anger, blame, worry, we might simply do our part by looking at this as our dream.

From an “If it were my dream,” perspective (and it is definitely MY dream as it is YOURS), you and I are all the characters being highlighted in the media. You may protest this and say,

“You or I would never put your knee on someone’s neck and not let go when they cry ‘Uncle’!” 

“You or I aren’t the one lying face down on the pavement!”

“You or I would never loot or vandalize our own property much less property that isn’t ours!”

And, yet I say, “Oh, yes I/we are.”

More accurately I’d say, “Oh, yes I/we have.

The macrocosm of humanity lives in the microcosm of each one of us:

What we see is what we be.

If you are reading this, you wouldn’t have been drawn if you weren’t striving toward making the world and your world a better place for all. You are no doubt on a conscious spiritual path, which makes you a kind, loving, thoughtful person. However, we all have, if even just a speck, of all the traits we’ve seen played out in the news.

This perspective isn’t to shame us, it’s to invite us into radical healing in the only way I see we truly can- by wrapping our arms around the parts of us who have abused our power …and wrapping our arms around the parts of us crying out in pain from injustice right now.

When I heal the disparate aspects of myself, when I see myself and everyone, and when I learn to love all aspects of self in the most unlovable, I can be more of a healing presence when I walk out into the world.

Of course, dreamwork isn’t the only solution, but from my perspective it’s a central pillar that can inspire action taken from a place of radical self-responsibility.


Today on the show in addition to taking your dreams in opening up the lines to anything and everything you want to talk about, I’ll be joined by the amazing Hollister Rand. She’s the best-selling author of the new Everything You Wanted to Know about the Afterlife but Were Afraid to Ask. We’re gonna talk about life and death and what’s on the other side and what George Floyd may be experiencing right now.

Here’s a little more about Hollister:

During the last twenty-five years, Hollister Rand’s dedication to the healing work of mediumship has included events and workshops in the United States and abroad.

Hollister’s work on television includes Tori & Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood and America Now. Her radio appearances include Sirius XM’s “The Séance with John Edward” (on John Edward Psychic Radio), KOST FM’s Angels in Waiting, KBIG-FM’s Radio Medium, and Coast to Coast with George Noory.

Hollister’s first book, I’m Not Dead, I’m Different: Kids in Spirit Teach Us About Living a Better Life on Earth, published by HarperCollins, is available in several languages.

Hollister lives in Los Angeles with her impossibly small Chihuahuas, Bodhi and Amara Metta. Visit her at: HollisterRand.com.

Enter a comfortable and comforting discussion about death and dying, with a friend who happens to be a medium, Hollister Rand.

Throughout time, humans have sought to understand the mystery of what exists beyond life on Earth.  In Everything You Wanted to Know about the Afterlife but Were Afraid to Ask, author and world-renowned medium Hollister Rand provides insights and answers to the most common questions about life after death.

Organized in an easy-to-use Q&A format, Hollister tackles a wide spectrum of concepts with candor and wit, busting myths and shedding light on a taboo topic. Beginning with “Is there really an afterlife?” and continuing with “Does romantic love exist in the afterlife?” Hollister addresses the concerns of the living with the no-nonsense wisdom of the spirits.

Everything You Wanted to Know about the Afterlife but Were Afraid to Ask is the living’s guidebook to the afterlife.  With Hollister Rand acting as liaison, readers will find solace and peace in the knowledge that our loved ones truly never leave us.

On the show today, we’ll discuss:

*        Afterlife
*        Spirits
*        Spirit Communication
*        Mediumship
*        Healing
*        Grief

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